This book will change what you believe about female sexuality 

Meet the Dual Control model, or the brakes and accelerator, that govern your ability to say yes to the erotic. 

Understand how context, like stress, body image, and mood impact sexual desire 

Learn about the two differnet types of desire -- spontaneous desire and responsive desire -- and discover where you land 

Learn how the nervous system is a large contributing factor of women's ability to engage sexually, and ways you can complete the stress cycle to free up more energy  

Meet Your Headmistress

Sarah Ward

Certified Sexologist and Somatic Intimacy Coach

As a Certified Sexologist and Somatic Sex Coach, I guide people to reconnect with their bodies, reclaim their pleasure, and shed shame rooted in religious and cultural conditioning.

You are normal. Yes, you.

I have a friend who, once she read Come As You Are, bought over a dozen copies to give to each of her girlfriends. Come As You Are is such an important read to help us understand how female sexuality differs from male sexuality, the impact that context has on a sexual encounter, and how your body and experiences are undeniably normal. Join us!

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